When a relationship breaks down you can’t help but be upset. Even if you saw the signs; he never called, you didn’t see him enough and you had to ask him to text you more- a text doesn’t even take two minutes to send right?
So the inevitable happens, guys carry on with their lives, girls go round to their mates to cry, drink tea, eating chocolate and getting drunk. Forgetting the person that they used to be and that they are frickin gorgeous and instead look like a mascara all over the face freak.
If this ever happens I want you to take note of a name. Greg Behrendt. The name probably means nothing to you unless you have read his books or watched the movie that a book he co-wrote was made into. That movie was He’s just not that into you. Now that is one of my favourite movies. It sometimes can depress you but after a break up it is a fab movie to watch. Scrap the movie; read the book. Co-written by Liz Tuccillo it says things like:
He’s not that into you if he’s not calling you
He’s not that into you if he’s not having sex with you
He’s not that into you if he is breaking up with you
And the list goes on…
I am up to page 70 of it’s just a date and admittedly it is a self help book but it teaches you common sense things which you sometimes forget like some guys realise they don’t like you after 1 date, some after a few dates and some after 2 years. It may hurt you as you have developed feelings for them but guys can be slowwwww. It tells you how to get dates and rock on em, know you’re worthy, don’t freak people out with your need (I probably do by the amount of conversation I like but all women like to talk, it’s a given, men should be understanding to that need and work around them).
I am yet to read Its called a Break up…but be rest assured when I have you’ll be hearing all about it!
Remember ladies; make sure he treats you like the princess you deserve to be treated like. I’m not saying ask for a rock 1 month in, move into his place 3 months in, I’m not saying he has to pay for dinner every time, I’m not saying he has to buy you gifts and drive you everywhere! But make sure he respects YOU and what YOU want in a relationship whilst at the same time you compromise too. The guy might not be a phone person but ‘you deserve a fucking phone call’ as Greg says – maybe not every day but a few times a week, if he bloody likes you, it isn’t going to hurt is it?