When people ask me ‘so…why are you single’ I really can’t give them an answer. It’s not as if I’m not getting out there and trying to date, meeting people in different ways or even being open to the occasional set up. But when it comes to the crunch I’m single, happily so, but it would be lovely to have someone to share my life with. As I tweeted on Sunday morning “some of you don’t realise how lucky you are to be waking up to a partner on a lazy Sunday morning”
However, there was been much discussion within my circle of friends as to why some very caring, successful and generally nice women are single.
The only thing we could easily define was that we intimidate men. And this was also something noticed by successful, powerful women who have partners. Women who are successful have equally successful partners who have some substance to them and don’t mind the lady in their life to be a go-getter.
A few people have said to me on dates if they know I have a blog or column: “I don’t want this to end up on your blog” it never would, (unless you treated me like shit!) I write about mine or my friend’s experiences, talking about my thoughts and feelings or generally having a rant. I don’t think I ever have written a revealing post about anyone other than myself. If I do write about someone it is only ever with permission.
So, I guess I just wanted to use this blog post as a disclaimer. Men of substance make yourselves known, I promise not to write about you in a tell all blog post!
Priya Mulji x