Chapter 9 is titled ‘He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you’. Let me give you a hypothetical scenario. You have been on a few, possibly 4, 5 maybe even 6 dates with a man, you are really starting to like him and he says things which lead you to believe that he likes you. Then, all of a sudden, he just disappears.. You don’t hear from him at all. No calls, no texts, no emails, no facebook messages….nothing.Ladies wake up and smell the coffee. He’s just not that into you. He hasn’t died, his mother hasn’t died and neither has his dog! About a month ago I would’ve called/face booked/emailed/twitter/texted…turned up at his house/place of work/mothers house/fathers house/ex girlfriends house/best friends house/gym but not anymore! He’s not that into you! You have seen him on Facebook chat, you have seen he has commented one someone else status… the emails you sent to him have not bounced back………… trust me, get out while you can!
Another scenario is you’ve been on a date with a guy, you thought you had a lovely time and say that you will arrange to meet again. You get the odd text, maybe a phone call if you are lucky. But no date. then he goes quiet. Normally I’d text, text, bbm, bbm, text ring, bbm, ring, ring, ring, ring, bbm, text, ring, ring… and then text once more just in case he missed all of that. Again, not anymore! If he has not asked you out again… Yes, you guessed it…. HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!
Other chapters of this book include:
Hes not that into you if he’s not calling you
Hes just not that into you if he’s not having sex with you
Hes just not that into you if he’s having sex with someone else
Hes just not that into you if he’s not marrying you
Hes just not that into you if he’s married
Hes just not that into you if he’s a selfish jerk, a bully or a really big freak.
The book is completely different to the movie as it is more about the situations and scenario’s. A totally empowering must-read! Go buy it now ladies! you will not regret!
Remember, if he doesn’t call, ask you out or want to marry you….He’s just not that into you x